Some personal insight into the harvest, and your graduation...

[zenmaster]

Be aware that finding 'love in the moment' is helpful for balancing work, which of course is necessary for evolution. This is because it provides a foundation for reflection of a relative purity and intent. But that awareness without the groundwork and foundation (which is also a manifestation of 'love') is simply not 'gonna cut it' for harvest without polarizing efforts:

Can you define groundwork? One does not need to be aware of TLOO and can polarise/balance/graduate; simply by choosing love.

Acceptance is normally a process which is the result of learning which is unique to the distortions of the individual. Here we move from being relatively unconscious, undifferentiated from the environment, others and self (pre-conventional, pre-rational, participation mistique, etc), to ideas which help differentiate environment and others, and self, (conventional, rational) then back to a conscious integration of environment, others and self (post-conventional, transpersonal, trans-rational). The 'choice' and ability to choose are inseparable, and analogous to the ability to ask the right question before an appropriate answer is received.