09-03-2011, 12:28 AM
I speak from my experiences in this - and I may not have
the whole picture. My perception is that due to feeling
outside of society, they take on mental models which
suit that feeling - and therein limit themselves.
I used to struggle greatly with this problem - but in my
experience it is that A tends to happen when B happens.
Not A = B. They often begin with what may be called
"low self-esteem" but this can be shed.
Predisposition is not predestination.
the whole picture. My perception is that due to feeling
outside of society, they take on mental models which
suit that feeling - and therein limit themselves.
I used to struggle greatly with this problem - but in my
experience it is that A tends to happen when B happens.
Not A = B. They often begin with what may be called
"low self-esteem" but this can be shed.
Predisposition is not predestination.