06-13-2011, 04:54 AM
I agree with you, my brother. But this forum is different compare to many others where hostility flows more freely. Nevertheless, when I first came here I thought that I could share *everything* as I had a feeling of being "home". After a while I realized that it was not the case. So while I am being myself, I also know that everything that I write can be challenged in not so caring way, and there are also some parts that I do not share here.
At the same time, I think that I understand other members too, who are questioning all that is said and written in this forum, who wish to examine the topics and things with measure and pen so to speak, and are not interested in love. So it takes some belief, love and knowledge for/of the self, to find the strength and wisdom to examine what was causing the catalysts in the self provided by others. In that sense, this place has, for me personally, been a place of growth. But I do agree with you, and think that some comments in the mentioned thread was unnecessary. And I also find the fact that we are not able to share everything with others here quite sad. But maybe we are not supposed to put all our cards on the table and just *love*smile*and accept* on the public/internet forum? I am doing it to my best ability in the real life though, and with people I got to know better through this forum in email forms. (By the way, you should have posted this in the Cognitive distortions and forum relationships thread.)
Anyway, I just wanted you to know that I like you very much. And I am very happy that you are still with us. When you first came here, I noticed you right away and hoped that you would stay with us for a little while at least, and you did! \0/ And still here!
Lots of love to you, Azrael!
Sad But True
At the same time, I think that I understand other members too, who are questioning all that is said and written in this forum, who wish to examine the topics and things with measure and pen so to speak, and are not interested in love. So it takes some belief, love and knowledge for/of the self, to find the strength and wisdom to examine what was causing the catalysts in the self provided by others. In that sense, this place has, for me personally, been a place of growth. But I do agree with you, and think that some comments in the mentioned thread was unnecessary. And I also find the fact that we are not able to share everything with others here quite sad. But maybe we are not supposed to put all our cards on the table and just *love*smile*and accept* on the public/internet forum? I am doing it to my best ability in the real life though, and with people I got to know better through this forum in email forms. (By the way, you should have posted this in the Cognitive distortions and forum relationships thread.)
Anyway, I just wanted you to know that I like you very much. And I am very happy that you are still with us. When you first came here, I noticed you right away and hoped that you would stay with us for a little while at least, and you did! \0/ And still here!
Lots of love to you, Azrael!
Sad But True
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