05-05-2011, 11:40 AM
i am not advocating hitting people but after 16 years i couldnt take it anymore. each situation is unique but the point i am making is that we all have the right to stand up to these people. they really are unconcious and sometimes the only thing that wakes them up is a shock. they are not getting love and light they dont live in that world. and i have gotten a lot better with my temper so before i say something impulsively i think first. responding in anger to these people gives them the upper hand but we have every right to respond and state our truth clearly. if they dont like it i dont really care to be honest tough its time for people to wake up and if i am part of that process so be it. ive often thought if i was a woman and a man put their hands of me it would be the last person they ever touched. i would have to kill them as i cannot stand anybody putting their hands of me like i was their property. so they would die and i would go to trial and hopefully i woud be acquitted. one thing is that i never perpetuated that pattern in my marriage, in 42 years we have never ever argued in front of the kids we always discussed things in private so i thank god for that
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