Acceptance and Will

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Ra has said several times that martyrdom is not wise. It is the ultimate act of love, but think of what else could have been accomplished if he were to have lived into old age.

These are the decisions Carla was faced with. It is wise to preserve the self, being able to continue service. In death, your service is cut short. This is not useful.

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Yes, I am with you on this one. I've also tried 'total love' and you are right. Sometimes you have to walk away. Still expressing love, but adding some wisdom to the mix, and denying the other. It's hard to make that decision sometimes, but ever so important to make it.

Yes, boundaries are important! When you think of a boundary, images of keeping something outside of yourself are conjured up. A boundary worded differently, is simply the necessities of the self.

Recognizing, accepting, and integrating these necessities actually accomplish the harmonization of all selves involved. This is what allows unity to occur in 6d. Because love viewed with wisdom would actually take into account not just the one on the receiving end of love, but it would be sure to also take care of the giver. There is a mutual meeting point. In 3d, if you are able to, you can view where the meeting point of love/wisdom takes place and set that as the limit for yourself.

This is a more pure distillation of the original thought that is Love (harmonization), not the other kind of love which is the emotional feeling/expression.