Acceptance and Will

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In the above case, if you were a 3d being watching the situation play out you would protect the victim.

I think you are limiting yourself in reaching a conclusion when you say that "acting against" a sts act in a sto fasion is controlling the sts entity. If you had to word it in any way, I would liken it more to not allowing them to have dominance. This isn't necessarily controlling them..you are keeping them neutral. You are only moving on a scale between sts and sto. This is what we do every day as the differences between sts and sto interact. I'm off to work myself!