(06-09-2009, 07:38 PM)pluralone Wrote: Fact is, there have been some folks with whom the relationship simply changed and I no longer enjoyed their company. If I feel the relationship is no longer in either of our best interests - for whatever reason - I will release it.does this include family members for you? do you cease contact with family members also if the company is no longer enjoyed? or are there exceptions made for family members?
Quote:I do have a suggestion, however: If you continue having contact with him, you may want to state some boundaries. You indicated his behavior is particularly inappropriate when he is drunk, for instance, so it's well within reason to tell him you do not ever want to see or speak with him while he's intoxicated.i usually only encounter him drunk when i try to contact him via phone. or i may leave a message for him and he calls me back drunk. if i were to avoid him entirely, then he would not likely contact me while drunk as far as i know, but i'm not sure. this just all gives me another reason to avoid contact with him honestly. of course, his drinking has increased again since he got together with this man again, so things may change and he may be drunk in person again. if that turns out to be the case (namely, if he gets drunk in person again), i'll probably just leave his presence.
(06-16-2009, 09:12 AM)3D Sunset Wrote: Remember that he is following his own path back to the source, and although it is different from yours, it is no better or worse.
i'm not quite sure what you mean. a little boy was kidnapped, drugged and sexually assaulted. i don't view certain paths as legitimate if they harm other people.