03-31-2011, 05:02 PM
but i guess my question is "what is love". as a parent i disciplines my
kids . i can remember several incidents where if i was to describe them
people would say what the heck. but was i supposed to say its ok to my kids to do drugs. because i didnt want to ruffle their feathers. no i had to draw a line in the sand, no drugs period . thankfully they have all turned out pretty good but in my mind i wouldnt have been doing my job to pretend
some drugs are ok . in the same sense if someone is insulting are we supposed to act as though we enjoy it . i personally cant bend myself into that kind of pretzel. one last thing communication on the internet is not real communication. people say things on the internet they would never ever say face to face. thats just the way it is. so defining a "loving reaction" to me is difficult.
norral
kids . i can remember several incidents where if i was to describe them
people would say what the heck. but was i supposed to say its ok to my kids to do drugs. because i didnt want to ruffle their feathers. no i had to draw a line in the sand, no drugs period . thankfully they have all turned out pretty good but in my mind i wouldnt have been doing my job to pretend
some drugs are ok . in the same sense if someone is insulting are we supposed to act as though we enjoy it . i personally cant bend myself into that kind of pretzel. one last thing communication on the internet is not real communication. people say things on the internet they would never ever say face to face. thats just the way it is. so defining a "loving reaction" to me is difficult.
norral