Doing things the other way round

[Confused]

Thanks Meerie
I've been guided to use a similar approach in the past when working through fear / blockages. The one that is most obvious that springs to mind was when I was expecting my son and I was in a perilous financial situation and I was guided to give away some of my precious finances to sponsor a child in a developing country. Whether this removed a blockage or helped energy flow or simply made me more grateful for what I did have rather than worrying about what I didn't have I don't know - but that seems to be what kickstarted an improvement in my own situation. So doing the opposite of a fear based instinctive 3d response to elicit a beautiful change in circumstances. Powerful stuff.

Hey, I am going to try that out. In my home, due to certain past patterns of interpersonal relations, I am always walking on eggshells and come across as irritable or even a tyrant.

But my motivations spring from deep-rooted fears, which make me dish out spite. I am going to try break it, and give love for a change. May be like in your case, Lorna, things would start improving once I do the opposite.