03-28-2011, 08:54 AM
(03-28-2011, 08:41 AM)Namaste Wrote: Hello sister.
Yes, she is polarising negatively as she is using her power to control others (you), for her own benefit. You are polarising positively as your actions are for the benefit of another.
For clarification, if you're partly choosing to go because you'd feel a bit selfish if you didn't, that's also polarising STS, and will reduce the polarisation negatively (although it will still remain on the positive side).
Thank you, brother.
No, not selfish. But I get aversion shivers in my spine by being threatened to do that otherwise she won't let her husband go to the party. She is giving me feeling of guilt and trying to force me into this situation. I would like to do it in order to help her, but have difficulties with this presented situation. Now, if she would simply tell me the situation and then kindly ask me to be her company that evening because she would hate to be alone, I would be glad to help her, but in this situation I am doing it because I want to help her husband as her approach gives me aversion for being in help to her. This is interesting also because of the approach one takes. If someone ask me for help I am glad to offer the help, but if someone approaches me with giving me guilt and threat me I am not inclined to help. Hmmm
