Should I continue to have contact with my father?

[irpsit]

My gut feeling reply: do not cut contact. If you feel, give less contact (in a subtle way, not to hurt him), to protect yourself. If necessary, your father may also need help and reassurance if he is ill, in the future. Remember your father may see you still as a friend. This is a delicate situation. The best would be that your father (and his mate) would open himself to counselling or some kind of help. But I don't know your situation in detail... I wish you all the best and healing in this!