apologising and empathy

[turtledude23]

I feel alot of self-loathing in your post. Your self isn't some despicable monster that needs harsh discipline, its more like a neglected child trying to get a parents attention and love. If you relax, understand why you do what you do, accept yourself as you are unconditionally, and love yourself, that will be the first step down a sure path to healing. The more you repeat that process of acceptance and balancing, the more your problems will disappear.

Q'uo:

there is an infinite flow of riches, beauty, truth, strength, peace and joy that flows throughout creation at all times. Tuning into that is like opening a door in the summer. There is never any need to feel alone, abandoned, neglected or discouraged in a universe so replete with loving energies of every imaginable nature that cluster and gather around each soul that is attempting to seek the infinite Creator.

http://www.llresearch.org/transcripts/is...226_2.aspx

Love is all around you ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9iA8h0UNYk ), if you choose to allow yourself to feel that omnipresent love then your problems will melt away.

I love you, everyone on this forum loves you, everything in creation loves you, so why be anxious? In one sense you are perfect the way you are, so just love yourself, its the most natural thing someone can do, just remove all the barriers you put up.