So she passed on June 11, 2022
I have a technique of keeping specific dates recorded to see if the date reappears, or if something significant happens on the anniversary or same day that it happened.
That place you mentioned Beachy Head is unique I never heard of it but am aware of several other places where people jump to end their lives. I think the reason they do not try to do more to prevent people from jumping is because the unfortunate truth is that people will simply find a way if they want a way out, and it would be too expensive to try to demolish or block off that zone. It does look like there are therapists that patrol the area to try to talk people out of it based on some research I did.
I think it is difficult for me to relate to being devastated by romantic relationships because I've never had one, and when I read comments on the internet hating on "incels" or reading about men upset over their relationships ending, I think of the number of holy men throughout history who were celibate and unmarried as an ideal goal, or like the speculation about Isaac Newton dying a virgin because he wasn't interested in pursuing a relationship while hes known for pioneering our understanding of the nature of light and physics. I figure with the pandemic, it is even more difficult to get people out of their own imagined ideals of what people need to look and behave like.
I say this because I bet there are a lot of angry people who feel unaccepted because they don't have relationships while I don't relate to being angry over not being seen as a "super hot guy" (meaning they like the way you look so much omg)... I just ignore people who don't like me. There is more to life than having a girlfriend, which might sound callous but what do you say to all the guys that have difficulty getting girlfriends?
I think it is important to accept your circumstances. It is not your fault. The alternative to this attitude for anything would be to just not accept your circumstances, which does not sound like a healthy attitude.
Also stories of suicide by certain famous people upon closer look such as Robin Williams turned out to happen because of severe pain from from injury or illness, not because they did not like being alive. I point out that those were examples of people with terminal illness doing it for the same reason an eldery dog would be euthanized, it was not because they did not want to live. I doubt they wanted people to copy their actions.
I have a technique of keeping specific dates recorded to see if the date reappears, or if something significant happens on the anniversary or same day that it happened.
That place you mentioned Beachy Head is unique I never heard of it but am aware of several other places where people jump to end their lives. I think the reason they do not try to do more to prevent people from jumping is because the unfortunate truth is that people will simply find a way if they want a way out, and it would be too expensive to try to demolish or block off that zone. It does look like there are therapists that patrol the area to try to talk people out of it based on some research I did.
I think it is difficult for me to relate to being devastated by romantic relationships because I've never had one, and when I read comments on the internet hating on "incels" or reading about men upset over their relationships ending, I think of the number of holy men throughout history who were celibate and unmarried as an ideal goal, or like the speculation about Isaac Newton dying a virgin because he wasn't interested in pursuing a relationship while hes known for pioneering our understanding of the nature of light and physics. I figure with the pandemic, it is even more difficult to get people out of their own imagined ideals of what people need to look and behave like.
I say this because I bet there are a lot of angry people who feel unaccepted because they don't have relationships while I don't relate to being angry over not being seen as a "super hot guy" (meaning they like the way you look so much omg)... I just ignore people who don't like me. There is more to life than having a girlfriend, which might sound callous but what do you say to all the guys that have difficulty getting girlfriends?
I think it is important to accept your circumstances. It is not your fault. The alternative to this attitude for anything would be to just not accept your circumstances, which does not sound like a healthy attitude.
Also stories of suicide by certain famous people upon closer look such as Robin Williams turned out to happen because of severe pain from from injury or illness, not because they did not like being alive. I point out that those were examples of people with terminal illness doing it for the same reason an eldery dog would be euthanized, it was not because they did not want to live. I doubt they wanted people to copy their actions.