What is the reason to want to be part of an social memory complex?

[Diana]

What would it be like when our experience is shared, common, and expanded by having no illusory separation? What happens when we understand and experience that we are: 

• the insects and all of their experiences; 
  
• the animals and all of their experiences;
  
• the ocean and land, the entire planet; 
  
• the humans with whom we share love, joy, suffering, fear ... 
  
• and much, much more ... 
  

Some would call this the experience of the open heart.  So, why wait for 4D?  Why not be here now with a wide open heart?  Why not feel and enjoy the love?

Maybe I am not as far down the path as you SF, but I really don't think fully opening the heart is that easy or simple. In order to get to the point where you see everything as "love" and open yourself empathically truly connecting all the way with other-selves (not just people), to feel their feelings, to deal with all the other intense emotions out there including horrible suffering, and then to be able to accept it, transform it, view it all as love seems to me to be a monumental accomplishment.

I see this idea of just opening the heart to love as cavalier. Not only that, from my experience, opening the heart is not something you can just do, or say you want to—it is the result of much growth in many ways. At points along the path certain widening of awareness opens, and it's not because you just want it to—the work has to be done to get there.

But maybe that's just my experience.