What is the reason to want to be part of an social memory complex?

[jafar]

... consider the vulnerability of being incapable of hiding your thoughts and experiences from others. What might it take to feel okay with that? At what level of maturity might one feel copacetic with complete transparency of self?

Maybe upon discovering that 'hiding thoughts and experiences from others' is actually an illusion?
Or upon discovering that there are 'others' who can easily access his/her thoughts and experiences?

Ra and Friends for example, who can easily access the experience as experienced by the 'channeler' thus they are capable of speaking and expressing thoughts in an alien language of planet earth called English.
And how Quo can access Ra's memory thus capable to explain what was mentioned by Ra yet using different form of expression and choice of words.

The similitude is like people who thought that their email messages in gmail are private and none other than themselves have access to it.
And being surprised that there are parties who can easily access and read his email on gmail.
Given all messages of all account are being stored on the same data storage.
And the email account thus addresses are actually virtual.

Identity are made of 'distinctive memory'.
When two or more identities have access to the same 'distinctive memory' those identities will merged to become one.
As identity are virtual to begin with, a made up construct in order for the one infinite consciousness to become finite and many thus can experience and recognize 'others' thus separation.

This is also apparent on people who are receiving a download regarding their 'past lives'.
What they received is a download of memory containing experiences as experienced by other 'identity' (or avatar) and since it's available in 'first person perspective', all the experience including the emotion as experienced by the 'identity', they will instantly identify themselves as that identity.
For example, it's possible for 2 people to receive a download of memory as experienced by an identity named Marilyn Monroe and both will declare "I was Marilyn Monroe in my past life".

Another example is on people with split personality, (Multiple Personality Disorder).
When a 'personality' came forward the other personalities will not have access to the experience as experienced by that personality.
When Sandy came forward, Alice will have no clue on what happened during Sandy's time although both Sandy and Alice is experiencing through the same physical human body using the same physical brain.

Then both Sandy and Alice agree to merge together, instantly both distinctive personality will be dissolved and a new merged personality is born, as the consciousness now have access to both Sandy and Alice memory.

"Ultimately everybody will realize that there's only one person in the room"
-- Neale Donald Walsh

"All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances, And one man in his time plays many parts."
-- Shakespeare