homeless people

[IndigoSalvia]

The solution isn't taking control of people and "guiding" them. It's accepting them as they are, letting them be in a safe and stable place, and let them discover who they are and their truest desires; Not choosing for them.

yes  

A friend questioned why I always carry goodies in my car to share with those who are homeless. Her position: it reinforces and encourages them to remain homeless.

I considered this statement, and my answer is: it is unknown. Regardless, encouraging/discouraging another's circumstances is not my focus. 

My intention is to simply be kind and loving, and to meet them where they are. 

As I look closely at these interactions when I share with and serve others (e.g., humans, animals, nature), I notice that I get something from the exchange: I feel good (loving, joy). 

This raises questions in me: why do I help others? is it self-serving, other-serving or all-serving? In other words, is there truly a distinction between STO and STS? This is a question I can answer with a resounding "yes" and an equally resounding "no."   (pardon my digression)