The current Ukraine crisis...

[Sacred Fool]

Nope, you don't notice the contradiction hidden in the proposition you made:

If you have a 'harmonize behavior' that 'automatically harmonizes' you to the will of the greater group, then it means that you basically don't have free will as you people describe it. Since you can't choose anything that would go against the combined will of the greater group.

And if you do not have it and you and you disagree with the greater group, then you have a conflict in your hands.

The way I read this, I may have a pronounced difference with someone, but we can remain in harmony.  To me, harmony does not connote conformity.  A lake is not a mountain, yet they avoid being in conflict with one another.  Why should harmony mean "...that you basically don't have free will as you people describe it."  Why would a state of harmony not be a state of acceptance of diversity while acting respectfully together?  If all agree to open their hearts to one another as they do to the one Creatrix, and accept their distinctions, then there is harmony and no abrogation of free will, so far as I can see.