Human Relationships and the Concept of Judgment

[Patrick]

...That's a solution - but how to handle with your companion?

Like I said, we little-selves cannot resolve those issues. The best way that I know of is to ask the Creator to move you or if this idea is not pleasant to you then you can ask to highlight the path for you.

When I experience a difficult time in a relationship, I look at my self being angry or the other-self being angry and I say inwardly "thank you for this life". It's the stupidest thing ever.  Thank you for my troubles!  Yet there is an undercurrent to this thanksgiving. The undercurrent is me giving up those issues to the Creator via my crown.  Thanks! but here take this! It is a way to ask the Creator, via thanksgiving, to please resolve those issues for you.

I really do think this is the best way to resolve issues. It's not instantaneous and so you will have to sit with those issues for a time, but I don't know any better methods of resolution.