Respecting other's free will

[sillypumpkins]

Is your relationship with that person enforced by external factors, like living with them at the same address?

not per say. it's a family member. I am living with one of my parents right now so they are pretty much welcome here any time (if not by me, than by my parent). this person lives with roommates about 30 minutes away from me, but again, they are free to come here whenever they wish as it's not my house.