BDSM / Polyamory And The Positive Path

[Jade]

According to Ra, we're talking about a metaphysical energy that most of us will not easily understand. If you desire to be controlled or to control while in a sexual engagement, this will block the green-ray energy transfer. Many things that are lower chakra distortions feel good and right, and of course can also contain love because all contains love. But a green ray transfer is not possible while engaging in dom/sub sexual dynamics - and in fact the relationship you speak of (where there is love/cuddling after) sounds a lot like trauma bonding, which is how abusers control their victims. I know this is different than an actual abusive relationship, my point is that the energy dynamic is very similar and it conditions us to maintain that dom/sub dynamic, whether it's consensual and pleasurable for both or not.

For a green ray sexual energy transfer, both partners need to be equal and equally giving and receiving. Neither person can be seen as an object to plunder. I don't think participating in BDSM makes someone a negative entity or anything like that, but there is a special power in the green ray energy transfer, which moves one into the realm of high sexual magic. There is of course also negative sexual magic, which is why I personally have avoided any semblance of dom/sub energy in intercourse since reading the material, as I don't want to be an unwitting conduit for that type of energy, and want to cultivate my ability to ground positive/green ray energy into this plane.

No judgement. To each their own. I don't eschew anyone their form of pleasure, if all beings involved are consenting and happy. This is just my understanding of the message that Ra transmitted.