A question for the advanced

[Indiken]

So there was this guy at the gym I go to, he started talking with a personal trainer.....

Everyone was still working out, minding their own business, trying to gain some "muscles" you know?
but we can't help to eaves drop a little bit because they were talking very loudly over the music...

The guy wanted to know more about "fitness" because he is new to it, wasn't too sure what he is doing, and was about to hurt himself.

We all raised our eyebrow when he started to turn his questions into a conversation about his opinions and the "right" way.

The trainer said to him.... "Hey bud, are you here asking me? or telling me?"

He eventually figured it out, and started working out to the music just like the rest of us.

I do not understand.
If one does not state explicitly, there is a "risk" that the target may miss the point.
Conceptually there are infinitive meanings to the post You wrote.
Everyone will take what is needed.
So You are writing for Yourself.

Everything You wrote about me I think is right.
I felt really relaxed after Your post.
I wanted to say sorry and thankfull for the criticism but I will not.
Because, I think, I am learning. In other words I have a tangible progress. As You said.
The criticism is the stronger catalyst.
You offered an opportunity to learn.
I am thankfull for this.

Be well.
AL.