BDSM / Polyamory And The Positive Path

[Black Dragon]

...especially the really hardcore stuff that keeps getting crazier and more desensitized, is fairly low vibration...

It can be a really useful tool when you're in need of rooting yourself back down though.

Oh yeah better to use something like that as a shadow outlet/grounding tool/self exploration. Since it isn't destructive and doesn't infringe anyone's free will, it's better not to control or repress those urges and just play them out as long as they are useful. Those avenues are certainly ok to understand ourselves and relate to those aspects of humanity, to empathize with the distortions of both the people performing the porn and others watching it.

There's just better expenditures of energy, it tends to leave me feeling sluggish to watch "junk porn". Other than that the main problems are if it becomes a need/addiction or if somebody is consuming porn made without full consent or under coercion/duress. Or worse. This sketchy stuff will have an extra low vibration and consuming it knowingly in full knowledge will have karma.

All those things considered, falling into shame or guilt about the porn use is like the "two punch" that hurts even more than the one punch of giving into temptation. Those shame and guilt vibrations are actually worse than the lust vibrations/porn itself.