Dealing with the negative polarized

[jafar]

however for the incarnated negative ones, best way is to avoid them wherever and whenever possible.

Ha ha.  I can think of one negative being you can never avoid.  It is not always so, but is now and then disdainful, angry, motivated by fear and so forth.  You'll never get anywhere trying to avoid that one!  They say that the only productive response to such as these is love.  

Couldn't agree more, they're part of you who got stuck with their (limited) identification, with their temporal role.
Helping them to 'migrate' and 'move on' is the best course of action, if such desire has came into them.
If not, then simply telling them that 'this' is not their only option might be enough for the moment, the 'other option' is waiting for them when they're ready.