Chaos and Unity: how do you handle it?

[Ohr Ein Sof]

It often strikes me how second density is better or even perfectly ‘organized’ compared to our ways in third..

I see what you are saying. They seem to move with far more organization than we do but there is something more to this. It is survival instinct I think you are witnessing. The cooperation and the manner in which they seem to collect themselves in daily activities. It is a little amazing to watch them because it does take loads of development in order to create well purposed patterns.
Like I said, we witness this and it is according to their very survival. Third density has a much harder time in realizing the self and the mind (remember everything is mind stuff). It really appears wild and chaotic but I promise there is also a pattern. Anytime there is a change, more movement, excitement or a shift; comes with it the "storm" I guess you could say. Where the warm ocean water meets to the deep cool current of another body of water brews movement. The yellow ray is a very powerful ray because when Man realizes himself for the first time, he is a powerful entity and just like the two currents that merge so does the lower and higher Man at some point.
I also like to think of these times (which are hard) as waking from a terrible nightmare where you fight to awaken.
You have a lot of hope it seems for humanity, that's your love/light, light/love. Just shine that never mind all the crazy patterns of awakening.