11-03-2020, 06:46 AM
(10-31-2020, 08:52 AM)Louisabell Wrote: Oh, I don't see the situation as helpless or hopeless at all. Perhaps the only thing that is hopeless is thinking that the human brain can understand the overview of the life journey of others, or thinking that we can know what is the best path. But indeed, what we think may be best for the other, could actually be what is best for ourselves.
The other-self is a mirror to the Self. Sometimes the reflections are strange to us - that is why we judge. Without judgement there is only love. And even so, there is only ever love, and so that is why judgement can hurt so much. To say that someone is over-reliant on something is a judgement. Perhaps a very useful judgement, something worth considering, but a judgement nonetheless.
You got what it takes.
In addition to your post, there was someone who said once that the process of death of a relative, friend or acquaintance affects one deeply because of the dissolution of the 3D idiosyncratic barrier that exists between the deceased and the living. Thus, whoever remains here is bombarded by the Love, the Logos, that there always was but couldn't be realized back then because of the ego, the defense mechanisms, and so on.
So, the only thing that remains after a deceased person is no more, is the Logos that lies therein, and also within one's Self.
Such realization might be really earth-shaking; maybe the true challenge wouldn't be to love, honor, and admire The Creation in spite of the mirrors and the defense mechanisms? You know, while the person is still around the 3D life?