What Does Love Really Mean in 4D and Higher

[Black Dragon]

This is a question I ponder a lot myself. I have certain feelings towards the issue, but honestly don't know for certain, and can only theorize and intuit as best I can from the standpoint of a wanderer in 3d. Even among higher density STO beings, there are differences in culture, mindset, and ways of expressing certain principles, so I'd imagine some would come off as more loving or aloof than others. I think some of the higher density beings in the past have really dropped the ball and left us holding the bag, and I feel that higher density beings can be at risk for becoming somewhat out of touch(though sincere), though in most cases, It's probably not willful apathy, though in some, I think it has the potential to degenerate that far.

There's a certain amount of privilege one has simply by being of a higher density than 3rd, especially an STO society with no internal strife and competition. It's not just safety and abundance, but freedom and mastery that seem godlike to unawake 3d humans. Sometimes it seems like the higher density beings can overlook the individual trees for the forest, so to speak, almost an "end justifies the means" attitude than can seem sort of ruthless and mechanistic. They can forget what it's like to have to live in 3d. I've wondered at times if any of them have ever felt any tangible sadness over our situation here.

I also find it hard to relate to that which seems aloof and unemotional, and I get angry at times over the seeming apathy. I think finding a balanced and holistic view means a bit of a compromise, in that we should value human love, and humanitarian morals and principles and emotionality, while reserving any solid judgments about the motivations or empathy of higher density beings and their perspectives that we don't completely understand.

Wouldn't it be nice to connect with such beings through the higher self or a dream state and experience any genuine love and empathy? To be proven that somebody out there actually cares and that higher density beings aren't all just mechanistic, deadbeat doorknobs? Borgs, so to speak? I don't have the memory of any such experiences in my own life, but I'm open to the possibility and to reserving judgment. I do feel we have a right and obligation to ponder these questions, to put the motives of higher density beings through the discernment of our own heartfelt principles rather than taking them as authority.