[split] Yellow ray and power/seeking

[Diana]

A 3rd density example I can give, that most of us probably have seen over and over again.

In a love relationship, one person (STS oriented) constantly plays the "victim card" to manipulate the perspective of their partner and others around them (friends,family.)

Once the relationship is shattered/disconnected, the "blame" falls completely onto their partner and never themselves, this STS person leaves the relationship on a "high horse" with attitudes like "I can find better." "You don't worth my time." And a pattern of over-glorifying their exterior-materialistic "mask." tend to take place. (closing their green ray energy)

Heavy make up, sexual-appeal clothing, manipulating and attracting more sexual partners/attention to themselves to gain a false sense of "self worth."

Without reflecting on their own actions/wrongs, burying their shadow deeper and deeper into their subconscious.
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To simply put, Slyness, Manipulative, Controlling, Playing Coy, Victimizing, Exterior/materialistic attraction, Setting-up a "stage," etc. etc.

The above seems to me to be an example of "soft" or default STS behavior. What I mean by that is this description is not someone who is serious about the STS path, but more an example of imbalance in my opinion. To be clear, I take it this is referring to women and how they manipulate men. The woman who acts in this manner could be operating out of powerlessness hence the bravado, rather than with the power of a dedicated STS practitioner. I think there are many people who fall into this default STS behavior as a self-protecting mechanism, or because they are emotionally immature.

I have known a few serious STS individuals in the business world. These are (men; I haven't come across any women as entrenched) who are utterly confident, justified in their behaviors with no excuses or bravado, capable in the extreme, wielding power over groups of people like they were born to do it, and the role they play is one of action. They embody the role so completely it creates a kind of justification in itself. Let's be clear that they are also cold-hearted. I find it interesting to observe. And I think there is something to learn from this behavior—focus, action, being proactive.

I don't think it serves us to demonize STS individuals. And as far as the kind of emotionally immature individual described in the above love relationship, it must be considered why anyone would even be attracted to such a person—who may be vain, self-interested, a self-professed victim, manipulative, "fake"—and this would be a consideration to ponder. There is something to learn on both sides of such a relationship, or any and all relationships.