Moving past being "the victim"

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I feel for you Silly, having known a little of that situation , not with siblings but with my hubby.


I love what Aion says, and do remember you are only one half, and also whatever you said that long time ago, the intent might not have been as dark as it seemed...

I am reading a really interesting book titled Initiation, by Elisabeth Haich, and in it there is something that might help, although less pointed than Aion’s advice, so less immediately helpful but a very interesting thing to keep in mind.

Elisabeth describes apparently the initiation she had as an Egyptian priestess, and her mentor describes the twelve twin pairs of essential qualities that one needs to learn to balance to become initiated.

Be silent-speak, openness-resistance to influence, obey-reign, humility-self/confidence, lightning speed-moderation, accepting all-discerning, possessing nothing-using everything, being attached to nothing-faithfulness, being noticed-being unseen, disregard of death-respect of life, indifference-love.

So she needs to discern how to use one or the other, as the choice between each pair has its use along situations. So with this she needs to appreciate the existence of both ‘evil’ and ‘good’ and see how one choice may be good in one circumstance and same choice bad in the other.  How  Creator creates only Good, Beauty, Truth, how there are no bad characteristics nor bad forces, but characteristics and forces wrongly utilized. And the  final thing she needs to learn is to come to impartial love, considering everything from the point of view of the All. How to come to love the All. How the manifested visible has its counterpart un-manifested.

It’s a really interesting passage of the book, and very much aligned with the LOO



Take heart Silly, a situation never stays the same..