01-27-2011, 09:54 AM
I've never considered a "group" as some official thing that has a set of rules establishing its consitution. I'm just generally drawn toward people I get along with, and we do things together. We are a group because we like to be around each other, not because we feel the need to conform to a code of behavior. I go to Carla's meditation "group" on weekends because I like channeling and metaphysics and being with people who can discuss this maturely, but there are no stipulations for being there. Anyone is welcome, and I can attend or not attend as I choose. I meet with these people because we share a common interest. I do not consider the meditations I go to a club, or a church service or a political party. I consider it a meeting between friends. That's pretty much the only type of group I've ever belonged to and been happy while doing it.