I can't help but think that things were a bit different back then when it comes to the cost of living. People all day every day complain about ever since 2008, the cost of living became merciless, and wages have only stagnated. Saving money is more and more difficult. The national minimum wage is pathetic. maybe 30 years ago it was reasonable..
People young and old encounter the same problem but so many people in their 20s ask all the time WHO or HOW the Hell....CAN people AFFORD to live on their own in a major modern city in an English speaking country?
That's not even thinking about saving.
I do understand what you mean that working together towards something is a better approach though.
I have much more to say about the idiocy of any large group of straight men instead of singling out any other group.
Like hey, men are so great? Let's go to another country like Brazil or Honduras and find a group of guys, let's just find a group of a dozen central american guys posted up in a poor neighborhood and greet them with open arms about the message of L/L and pray we we don't just get curbstomped because of their senselessly fierce attitude.
I tell guys younger that there are never going to be men thinking about what is best for them in groups like the military. "You'll just get used" for the most part. If being bossed around and used as an expendable pawn, go ahead and think packs of aggressive men are ever going to care about your interests and well being compared to prioritizing their own above all.
Or like imagine being a youngster hanging out with a group of military or street dudes and then women come in to the picture. The weaker guys will just get bulldozed over who gets to have the company of the women. They're mine BACK OFF! *SNARL* and just picture some gladiator arena standoff unfolding and quickly ending.
The women in a lot of these places won't do anything to end this mindless cycle, and it's not like I expect them to. They get pregnant and their sons wind up like the fathers who often time have these attitudes. I have never once witnessed lots of women full on boycotting the company of a guy like that. They want the biggest wolf so they feel like they are safe from harm a lot of the time. Maybe it would lead to world peace if all the hyperaggressive bulls were shown that behaving this way would lead to a life of involuntary celibacy but that's not how I've ever once heard a society of women acting towards these kinds of men. There's no reason to get offended over me pointing this out in the same way that groups of men aren't going to feel offended and feel it is there duty to stand up for their gender.. because guys don't consider the actions of other men as a part of some brotherhood of all other men. No. They often wage war against each other and divide and conquer..we all know it there's nothing fluffy about this selfish behavior.
I don't dwell on it. Either gender male or female there are bad people it doesn't matter what they look like. In my opinion women are often times more drawn to spirituality than males because their mental evolution more revolves around looking in to the subtle underpinnings of communication than males. The female brain actually detects more nuances of sound than the male brain. It's anatomy.
Rich countries are different because the people have been tamed by financial structuring over a long time and this sort of behavior is never going to make the average person super successful.
People young and old encounter the same problem but so many people in their 20s ask all the time WHO or HOW the Hell....CAN people AFFORD to live on their own in a major modern city in an English speaking country?
That's not even thinking about saving.
I do understand what you mean that working together towards something is a better approach though.
I have much more to say about the idiocy of any large group of straight men instead of singling out any other group.
Like hey, men are so great? Let's go to another country like Brazil or Honduras and find a group of guys, let's just find a group of a dozen central american guys posted up in a poor neighborhood and greet them with open arms about the message of L/L and pray we we don't just get curbstomped because of their senselessly fierce attitude.
I tell guys younger that there are never going to be men thinking about what is best for them in groups like the military. "You'll just get used" for the most part. If being bossed around and used as an expendable pawn, go ahead and think packs of aggressive men are ever going to care about your interests and well being compared to prioritizing their own above all.
Or like imagine being a youngster hanging out with a group of military or street dudes and then women come in to the picture. The weaker guys will just get bulldozed over who gets to have the company of the women. They're mine BACK OFF! *SNARL* and just picture some gladiator arena standoff unfolding and quickly ending.
The women in a lot of these places won't do anything to end this mindless cycle, and it's not like I expect them to. They get pregnant and their sons wind up like the fathers who often time have these attitudes. I have never once witnessed lots of women full on boycotting the company of a guy like that. They want the biggest wolf so they feel like they are safe from harm a lot of the time. Maybe it would lead to world peace if all the hyperaggressive bulls were shown that behaving this way would lead to a life of involuntary celibacy but that's not how I've ever once heard a society of women acting towards these kinds of men. There's no reason to get offended over me pointing this out in the same way that groups of men aren't going to feel offended and feel it is there duty to stand up for their gender.. because guys don't consider the actions of other men as a part of some brotherhood of all other men. No. They often wage war against each other and divide and conquer..we all know it there's nothing fluffy about this selfish behavior.
I don't dwell on it. Either gender male or female there are bad people it doesn't matter what they look like. In my opinion women are often times more drawn to spirituality than males because their mental evolution more revolves around looking in to the subtle underpinnings of communication than males. The female brain actually detects more nuances of sound than the male brain. It's anatomy.
Rich countries are different because the people have been tamed by financial structuring over a long time and this sort of behavior is never going to make the average person super successful.