female wanderers

[Navaratna]

In general I would also like to note an important thing:

All of us have made very bad experiences with men as well as with women. So its natural to get in touch with that anger at some time.

If we do not get in touch with it, there is no way we can heal it, if we dont heal it, we suppress it and act it out unconsciously.
i,believe its just very important to deal with it with awareness and a healing approach!

I went through phases of incredible anger and hate towards women, that was a tough phase. But I am glad I did it, my relationship with myself and with others changed a lot as a result.
I went through the same stuff regarding men, that was even harder (since I am one myself), but also extremely beneficial.

Just dont remain stuck in it. Realize where its coming from, fave it, go through it and let go of it.
Your life will improve greatly!

I remember voicing a lot of irritation to a friend one day and he said..think of all the stuff guys do though.

I can think of all the crazy men who went on shooting sprees for example. How many women do that?

I point out how when guys are criticized for doing something stupid, guys don't rush in and defend all men.. because it seems everyone can acknowledge men often do stupid things.
It's doesn't need to be about gender because often it is just the individual being good or bad...how simple minded can people be to act like there are only 2 varieties of humans?