female wanderers

[Glow]

Flow. We’ve really done these slam women posts to death here seeing as it’s a male dominated board the point of view squews to be quite unbalanced in that regard.

I really really hope you won’t start that up again.
Everything you say about women being stuck in red ray can be said about men.
Stuck in red ray? The bulk of men are obsessed with red ray. Youth, beauty, sexual desire based on superficial vs higher Ray expression. I certainly wouldn’t be pointing at women making stuck in red ray remarks. Pot meet kettle.

Thankfully not all men or women are stuck in such things but most are.
That is what the world teaches unfortunately so the sleeping gobble it up till they one day awaken looking for deeper expressions and understanding.

As to female wanderers.

The ones I have met on here and in person very few sought out to raise a family.
I imagine earlier generations were not fortunate enough to have been given that choice but those roughly in my age range most did not resonate with the role.

I never felt this was a gentle enough place for any vulnerable ones I could bring here.
Personally I only ever met one man that made me even consider such things as bringing children here, but he was a wanderer too and what I really craved was reunification/fusion. Oneness with him.

I’m out of your age range 42, were those red ray parameters?

I’m married.
We have a pretty great life, I mean for a planet where most dwell in the seeking of separation.
He’s not at all stuck in red ray, I wouldn’t have handled someone who could be led away by youth or superficiality. I’m not stupid we all grow older and I like to go quite deep with people, all people but certainly my life companion better be here for reasons deeper than red/yellow.

I know wanderer men here, the ones I know relate from higher rays. A few exceptions some stuck in the karmic maelstrom and we can only hope they work through it.

Anyways this wasn’t meant to be rude so much as perhaps to deter a repeat.

we lost quite a few of the female wanderers through post with similar threads that in an unbalanced way heaped this stuff on women.
I sure hope we won’t have a repeat of that as there are only a few of us that haven’t left.

I’m editing because you guys are saying women are after money.

I married my husband when he was an art student, I was in engineering school.
I was totally going to be carrying him financially. I actually put him through his last two years of school.

Turns out we both ended up doing things other than expected.
We make about the same.
We always say though you shouldn’t marry anyone you wouldn’t live in a run down appartment
with and still be glad you were together.

Situations change, looks, finances, everything material can go away.
You only have the one inside the vessel and sometimes they die.
So no this female wanderer didn’t go for a family or money. Just love.

I feel your assumptions about women are quite biased.