Louisabell, do you love yourself? Do you accept yourself just the way you are? Do you forgive yourself? You know, in case we have been raised in a dysfunctional families we carry so much guilt, self-doubts, we feel ourselves unworthy, we tend to think "perhaps it is my fault, i wasn't good enough", we became ruthless and demanding for ourselves - "you have to do better, don't look for excuses", etc..
According to Confederation, energy comes through our feet and base cakra and then it goes up. After red base cakra comes orange cakra, where we deal with other entities on 1-on-1 basis. That also includes dealing with ourselves, because you always one on one when you looking inside yourself or when you looking in a mirror. So those of us who have traumatized childhood, whose parents were not supportive, affectionate, forgiving and loving, have blockages in orange cakra, which have to be removed before energy of One Creator can move on unimpended upward to yellow cakra and eventually to green cakra of unconditional love. What i am trying to say is that could it be that our inner dictatorship runned by ruthless mind find a way to opress and submit our true self by blaming us we are uncapable of open our hearts without expectation of return? In my humble opinion i think we fist have to be kind, loving forgiving and accepting to ourselves, to heal our childhood wounds in case we have any, before we can proceed further and expect ourselves to be loving, accepting and forgiving of other people. Very hard task i must say.
According to Confederation, energy comes through our feet and base cakra and then it goes up. After red base cakra comes orange cakra, where we deal with other entities on 1-on-1 basis. That also includes dealing with ourselves, because you always one on one when you looking inside yourself or when you looking in a mirror. So those of us who have traumatized childhood, whose parents were not supportive, affectionate, forgiving and loving, have blockages in orange cakra, which have to be removed before energy of One Creator can move on unimpended upward to yellow cakra and eventually to green cakra of unconditional love. What i am trying to say is that could it be that our inner dictatorship runned by ruthless mind find a way to opress and submit our true self by blaming us we are uncapable of open our hearts without expectation of return? In my humble opinion i think we fist have to be kind, loving forgiving and accepting to ourselves, to heal our childhood wounds in case we have any, before we can proceed further and expect ourselves to be loving, accepting and forgiving of other people. Very hard task i must say.