03-07-2020, 08:05 AM
Surfboard, I understand your desire for a higher and pure kind of love. I understand it because I share this yearning, as I'm sure is the case of pretty much everyone here, and at one level or another, of every soul on Earth, whether they are consciously aware of this or not. However, it's difficult if not impossible for true unconditional love to manifest here in 3rd density. We're just too close to the lower triad of chakras; we're right in it, actually. We can't separate ourselves from our instinctual, biological/chemical, social selves, and much of our psychology is wired for behaviors and thought patterns more focused on the social integration and desirability of the self than on giving an unconditional and self-sacrificial love (in fact, self-sacrificing behavior itself entails imbalance, as Ra points out). Our density is one that simply starts to open up the heart, and only in the case of those that make such a choice. Full, absolute and unconditional love is not explored / learned / manifested until fourth density (late fourth density, even). Do you feel that you need to experience unconditional love here in this density before you are able to do what you want? Is this a thought pattern that is going to help you or harm you?
When you speak of the chemical love of your mom, you mean that it comes from evolutionary reasons; mothers being inherently wired to protect their children, correct? I know and I agree that it's not a kind of love that is of absolute purity or unconditional, but it's one of the ways in which love begins to be explored in third density. And I would say, it's one of the highest ones that can be experienced here. It's easy to take it for granted, but there are people who don't get to experience it at all.
To be honest, when I read you, I can't help but think that you are more focused on whether other people are going to be unconditionally loving, than on what you can do to be unconditionally loving, yourself. It's your choice, and I don't mean to judge, as I see my own self doing that sometimes, but people tend to build up resistance and resentment when they perceive that unrealistic expectations are placed upon them. It's easy to believe that the person expecting such things will never be happy no matter how much is done for him/her. The thing about striving for purity is that we can always find within our minds reasons to be ungrateful, critical and unhappy, whether with ourselves or with others.
There's a dark side to focusing too much on purity. Nazi ideology was born out of a yearning for purity.
When you speak of the chemical love of your mom, you mean that it comes from evolutionary reasons; mothers being inherently wired to protect their children, correct? I know and I agree that it's not a kind of love that is of absolute purity or unconditional, but it's one of the ways in which love begins to be explored in third density. And I would say, it's one of the highest ones that can be experienced here. It's easy to take it for granted, but there are people who don't get to experience it at all.
To be honest, when I read you, I can't help but think that you are more focused on whether other people are going to be unconditionally loving, than on what you can do to be unconditionally loving, yourself. It's your choice, and I don't mean to judge, as I see my own self doing that sometimes, but people tend to build up resistance and resentment when they perceive that unrealistic expectations are placed upon them. It's easy to believe that the person expecting such things will never be happy no matter how much is done for him/her. The thing about striving for purity is that we can always find within our minds reasons to be ungrateful, critical and unhappy, whether with ourselves or with others.
There's a dark side to focusing too much on purity. Nazi ideology was born out of a yearning for purity.