12-09-2019, 02:50 PM
I feel it is misunderstood.
There is potential for harmful behavior.
The same is true for STO.
Loving and trying to help, out of a desire to get a certain result, is STS.
The expectation creates selfishness.
One can be completely focused on the self n not wish to be above another or even part of a hierarchy.
We can provide little in the way of help...besides comfort and advice when requested.
This is the 5% we offer others.
This is the positive STS path.
Wanting to help...so that one may experience a subjective perfection, is negative STO.
It's not black n white.
There is potential for harmful behavior.
The same is true for STO.
Loving and trying to help, out of a desire to get a certain result, is STS.
The expectation creates selfishness.
One can be completely focused on the self n not wish to be above another or even part of a hierarchy.
We can provide little in the way of help...besides comfort and advice when requested.
This is the 5% we offer others.
This is the positive STS path.
Wanting to help...so that one may experience a subjective perfection, is negative STO.
It's not black n white.
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