How do people in bad environments balance their chakras+incarnation process?

[BridgesToLight]

Those who chose 3rd world poverty, war, while inexplicable to me, makes perfect sense to their own soul, their own journey.

I get the idea of "manyness," and experiencing all there is as an individual path. But...

Parents take care of their children until they grow to adulthood, don't they? They feed their children, shelter them, guide them (hopefully not too much, allowing for individual expression).

Yes, parents should, but all don't. It was incredibly hard for my parents, deeply wounded souls who passed on many of their wounds to us 5 kids. My childhood was so traumatic, I blew it up to get out at 15. Escaped from raising their brood, to my own child and deeply wounded spouse.
Blew that up a decade later to escape the new flavor of pain I found myself in.

So, as a society, as a collective consciousness of humanity, I would hope we could evolve to the point where the less fortunate—the homeless, starving, and war-torn—would be able to get their basic survival needs met. Beyond that, there is plenty of catalyst to experience. 

Pretty sure this is part of Ascension and the Harvest. Else what would be the point.
But, even Ra states that the vast majority of humans won't make it this round, only the few.
And all souls will be exactly where they are supposed to be. Even though it pains me to think the suffering will always be part of a soul's evolution, I'm a fixer that hates unfairness and pain to others, I know it is part of the illusion of material incarnation,and I know my angst about others perceived suffering only feeds the darkness and my own distortions.

This is one of the hardest things to understand and accept. I have a ways to go, but I've made some progress!