How can one life affect polarity?

[flofrog]

Gem I could be so wrong but my feeling is that at each incarnation there is the opportunity to change polarity, so trigging does make a difference.

My hubby may have been slightly neutral when young and then met after our wedding an environment where definitely he delved into some negativity. It probably didn't suit him totally and in the last ten years, through I am sure tremendous efforts he has reversed to neutral and to, I feel, definitely some service to others which fulfills him more and more day after day.

of course it is just one exemple, but I really feel our free will permits us to choose different polarities. Not that in the very end it will matter since all will become positive, but for sure the positive way is less lonely

To me, Gem, there is not much to worry, you serve others a lot here, I have seen you answer posts constantly so to the question " Can I do well... ?" Indeed you do !!