(05-20-2019, 03:08 PM)Minyatur Wrote: Anyhow, I'm not saying that what I say on this forum is what needs to be told to people on the street. I see this forum as a written platform that gathers seekers that were drawn to a material that offers information, so understanding is more what can be balanced here because of the nature of the medium and its context. Like in the case of anger, maybe more than denying someone's anger with reason you can just reason yourself that there is something beneath it and try to address that without denying the anger. So while it is not that bad for you to become angry together with the person, maybe just saying something like "It is understandable to be angry" in a compassionate energy already makes a chink in the shelled-armor that hinders that person to heal.
Very true Minyatur, and I think this is what happens often here, at least that is how I see this forum and why I like it, but I don't have always time to read all the different threads, but still to me, this is forum where everyone shows a lot of compassion and seeks to help someone angry or bruised.
I kind of regret that red chartreuse decided to leave. But I am not sure her passing through this place diminished the tension or the anger she had on certain subjects.
There is one thing I didn't quite get. Red was very openly upset about that sinking hole where supposedly many are, and wished to help, but there seemed to be at some time much anger on that issue. Can anyone explain to me why she was angry about this. I mean if you wish to help someone, you can either do it privately one on one, or you can pray and meditate on your side for a group when that group is not personally known. If anyone has a comment on this, please do so.
I also feel for anyone who is a moderator on any web site, so all kinds of feelings towards Jade to stay afloat....