Minyatur- Regardless of all that “being unwise to suppress” stuff this question was clearly posed to recreate dialogue about feminism.
Reread the options, it clearly illustrates an frustration with feminism or what he perceives feminism to be.
I’m not saying trolling but not communicating the issue directly.
The poll wasn’t so much about if it is right to fight back but it (the question itself) is the lashing back as you can see by the poll options.
That’s fine too, good god the world is changing so fast catalyst aplenty and it needs to be worked through and understood but this way of circling the issue(poking the perceived monster then sidestepping) isn’t really making headway. It’s just poking..
Still that is fine too we all could have chosen not to participate but the results of this catalyst being presented over and over is that people will mirror back and or dig deeper.
As to the woman hitting thing you bring up. I swear that only is promoted in movies. I have never once met a woman in my 42 years that thinks it’s ok to hit a man that doesn’t also hit women. Violent people are violent.
In days gone by where people were over all more violent I’m sure it was a thing the slap and expecting not to be slapped back but we are talking the 50s where women were regularly hit anyways, who knows but those that were there how that worked, but now in almost all cases it is the outlier like your girlfriend who thinks that is ok.
The fact sit coms and movies still act that out regardless of its actual rarity in society says to me it is again part of the programming of separation we are fed through media and we can either latch on to that and believe we are so separate and divided or look at what we experience most commonly in society and move past it.
Violent people are violent. Angry people are angry, entitled selfish people are entitled and selfish and people.
Like you I see no right nor wrong just working through catalyst I and a few others might just want to offer a more direct route than circling. Those that engage the circling obviously need to circle, till they change course.
Reread the options, it clearly illustrates an frustration with feminism or what he perceives feminism to be.
I’m not saying trolling but not communicating the issue directly.
The poll wasn’t so much about if it is right to fight back but it (the question itself) is the lashing back as you can see by the poll options.
That’s fine too, good god the world is changing so fast catalyst aplenty and it needs to be worked through and understood but this way of circling the issue(poking the perceived monster then sidestepping) isn’t really making headway. It’s just poking..
Still that is fine too we all could have chosen not to participate but the results of this catalyst being presented over and over is that people will mirror back and or dig deeper.
As to the woman hitting thing you bring up. I swear that only is promoted in movies. I have never once met a woman in my 42 years that thinks it’s ok to hit a man that doesn’t also hit women. Violent people are violent.
In days gone by where people were over all more violent I’m sure it was a thing the slap and expecting not to be slapped back but we are talking the 50s where women were regularly hit anyways, who knows but those that were there how that worked, but now in almost all cases it is the outlier like your girlfriend who thinks that is ok.
The fact sit coms and movies still act that out regardless of its actual rarity in society says to me it is again part of the programming of separation we are fed through media and we can either latch on to that and believe we are so separate and divided or look at what we experience most commonly in society and move past it.
Violent people are violent. Angry people are angry, entitled selfish people are entitled and selfish and people.
Like you I see no right nor wrong just working through catalyst I and a few others might just want to offer a more direct route than circling. Those that engage the circling obviously need to circle, till they change course.
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