Session 89 - Two Negatively Polarizing Wanderers

[Louisabell]

When I think of those types of catalyst that have given me the fuel to want to be a better version of myself, I think of the various encounters in my life where friends, service providers and even complete strangers showed me an inordinate amount of kindness and respect.

Would you be willing to share a specific story of this?  One where another's demonstration of lovingkindness really catalyzed you to take your life in a different direction?

Once I went to emergency for an issue I was having that was causing me quite a bit of pain. I was tended to by multiple nurses and doctors as they injected me with an IV and examined me. One young doctor during his time with me came up beside me. He grabbed my hand (the one with the IV in it) and he took a little time to look directly at me and give me this super warm and caring smile. At that moment I was overcome with a feeling that everything was going to be OK. My frustrated attitude towards my "uncooperative" body changed to one which realized how precious it was and how this doctor was investing himself to lovingly heal it.

These exchanges catalyze certain chain reactions in the life pattern. You cannot say that this one interaction changed absolutely everything for me in that moment, but it taught me a lot on how to be. This doctor has no idea what, if any, effect his choices had on me. This service goes beyond language. I think it is impatience that wants us to see really obvious external effects, but I think it does us well to remember that one of the most evident manifestations of polarization is simply the attitude change.  

83.7 ▶ Questioner: One thing I don’t understand is why, if there was no veil, that the review of incarnation after the incarnation would help the process since it seems to me that the entity should already be aware of what was happening. Possibly this has to do with the nature of space/time and time/space. Could you clear that up, please?

Ra: I am Ra. It is true that the nature of time/space is such that a lifetime may be seen whole as a book or record, the pages studied, riffled through, and re-read. However, the value of review is that of the testing as opposed to the studying. At the testing, when the test is true, the distillations of all study are made clear.

During the process of study, which you may call the incarnation, regardless of an entity’s awareness of the process taking place, the material is diffused and over-attention is almost inevitably placed upon detail.

The testing upon the cessation of the incarnative state is not that testing which involves the correct memorization of many details. This testing is, rather, the observing of self by self, often with aid as we have said. In this observation one sees the sum of all the detailed study; that being an attitude or complex of attitudes which bias the consciousness of the mind/body/spirit.

So it seems the only thing we really take with us after the incarnation is our complex of attitudes.

The key to creating of the life a sacred journey is the attitude with which this journey is taken. We would suggest that the invocation of gratitude and thankfulness is a great key in bringing one’s day-to-day life into focus. For no matter whether that which faces one in any particular instance would be thought of by the world as a blessing or as a challenge, yet still, in essence, that which lies before you is the perfect gift for this moment, containing your service and your learning.

There are people who "feel judged" all the time.  But the most that pretty much anybody is doing is holding up a mirror.  Some of us just do that more consciously than others.  

True, and why shouldn't they when they have been told their entire lives by parents, peers, educators, media, society that they're not good enough? And if someone is experiencing this internal catalyst of feeling overly judged, do you really think another "judgmental" statement about something else they're doing wrong will help at all (even if it seems helpful to you)?

So how do we make that assessment in each situation as to whether tough-love/zen-slap will "shake someone awake" or if it will just add to the already overloaded unresolved catalyst that the entity is painfully carrying? Well, I would say that love is required to guide us, for it is only love that demands that each individual for each situation be treated with the unique consideration that they deserve.

I think the frustration is not so much that spiritual people are bestowing too much loving kindness without effect, but that anything we do has little effect. Which kind of makes sense, if it was easier then a 3rd density cycle wouldn't take 75,000 years, and there definitely wouldn't be any repeater souls. But that is the path of service to others, which is to offer the service without any expectation of return/result.

I had added a section to my earlier reply about parts of me that would be considered STS that I fully embraced and accepted as something not to suppress. My intention was to show my complete NONJUDGMENT of you. I deleted it after as I felt it just seemed I selfishly was somehow making the thread about me. perhaps that selfishness(I love sharing and connecting) would have helped you see I really am not judging you at all. So I should have overshared apparently l.

It is even possible to overshare here? Please do.

Also, I think this has been a great discussion and I thank redchartreuse for bringing it to the forefront, and for your unapologetic honesty in addressing it... and don't forget to administer your vials of lovingkindness © INC*


*may cause unintended side effects, polarizing towards the positive not guaranteed