Mahatma Gandhi STS?

[Patrick]

Well, his views were contrary to the organization of power at that time. This being service to self over the desires of the other self.

Understanding the play of children, and then the parent coming into the room to calm down their play would be a similar situation. The parent is negative to the desires and wishes of the children.

Are the parent's actions at the expanse of the children and for the benefit only of the parent ?  That could be negatively polarizing.  Humm, maybe if the parent did it only so that the house is quieter.  Then I guess parenting is hugely negatively polarizing !