Is life full of tests?

[Cannon]

IIRC in the Ra Material it's said that some entities would become wanderers specifically to test themselves (such as how far they can remain compassionate in times of duress.) Usually the 'tests' we have in life are just catalyst, meaning that they're events for you to define yourself through your actions/reactions. Catalyst cannot be failed, but it can be ignored or used "inefficiently." Basically, you can grow from the catalyst event, you can grow from the event but not as much as you could've, or you can just ignore it completely and something else will (compassionately) come to help you in your spiritual growth/journey.

I am Ra. We observed your interest in the catalyst of pain. This experience is most common among your entities. The pain may be of the physical complex. More often it is of the mental and emotional complex. In some few cases the pain is spiritual in complex-nature. This creates a potential for learning. The lessons to be learned vary. Almost always these lessons include patience, tolerance, and the ability for the light touch.

Very often the catalyst for emotional pain, whether it be the death of the physical complex of one other-self which is loved or some other seeming loss, will simply result in the opposite, in a bitterness, an impatience, a souring. This is catalyst which has gone awry. In these cases, then, there will be additional catalyst provided to offer the unmanifested self further opportunities for discovering the self as all-sufficient Creator containing all that there is and full of joy.

Did I fail tests when I hurt them?

As Ra says, there is no right or wrong, and there are no mistakes.