To fight or not to fight (in 3d and 4d)?

[Zach]

I think a lot of good can come of fighting, as opposed to not fighting. It's kind of inevitable in this land of confusion that you will upset someone, or that someone will upset you. If they are a transient figure in your life it is best to let it go and let them go, I think. However, if this person means anything to you, you should have a good fight with them! Not fighting for the sake of fighting, but fighting for the sake of understanding. To be emotionally suppressed is a curse, so get angry and let them know about it. How can they/you learn if they/you don't know how they/you made you/them feel? I think it's the hallmark of a good relationship to allow each other full expression of feelings, not deflecting or reflecting, but truly appreciating the struggle for love and understanding.