To fight or not to fight (in 3d and 4d)?

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I find that everyone here is so wise ;D

But I seriously agree with what has been said. This is what I feel and of course I could be so wrong. If someone is being abused, in a mental way, yes trying to get out physically, not necessarily fighting, and always silently mentally, spiritually sending love to the abuser, most important.

If abused physically, by all means possible, leave, and this is not always easily accessible, and so much compassion towards such a person facing this. I was never physically abused, but was threatened once by my husband a long time ago and my mouth was parched for a week until I managed to meet a lawyer and got advice.

Apart from this, constantly sending internally love in a sincere way is a most beneficial thing, absolutely, it links spontaneously to faith and it does help so much,... Today my husband is way more open to other people, which he was not before, which I admire a lot as I am sure it took a lot of work.

I am extremely lucky in the the fact I had absolutely loving parents and siblings, but like Tae, much more inward people, so that helps with noise levels but adorable anyway. I have only a brother left alive today, I love him to death, but I talk often to the rest as I miss them a bit

and this being said, never give up, love accomplishes it all, Ra was so right on !!! lol