Is this a cold decision?

[Cainite]

Have you ever done this? what are your thoughts?

I have, and it's rough.

A decision like this is never made simply or easily. I personally tried everything I could to reconcile beforehand - gave them many "chances" before taking the final action. They did not comprehend the kindness or leniency I gave. When I cut them out, it was wounding to them. I grieved for their pain.

But! If taking adequate care of one's own self is NOT considered, we will not have the health to continue in service to others.

The toxic ones would prevent us from healing and being healed. That seems to be a goal they have, whether conscious or unconscious.

True.. and they can only take and rarely give. even in exchange of what they're taking..

So some days ago, I took advantage of this. somebody like that was talking to me online, then he decides to come here and use my PC to record something.. and also take video games from me. then I said ''Ok, that way, while you're here, I can use your instrument for some recordings of my own too'' that's when I knew he will disappear and never mention comming here again... and that's exactly what happened.