10-04-2018, 03:16 PM
For me, the attachment issues stem from my parents not being connected to their desires at all. Then all the desires get diverted down to sexual/habitual distortions and repressed. Since they are completely unable to express themselves sexually, they essentially feel punished for every desire.
However, desire is an essential part of growth. And since I needed to be able to grow, I would move on my desire (as I was also more open than them, expressing their repressed desire for them) and every time be punished for it. This being how my parent's reality operates.
However, desire is an essential part of growth. And since I needed to be able to grow, I would move on my desire (as I was also more open than them, expressing their repressed desire for them) and every time be punished for it. This being how my parent's reality operates.