The cord is back.

[Stranger]

I love what stranger wtote.

EP, many thoughts to you, it’s difficult  to live alongside in disharmony. Years ago I had a difficult  passage with my mate and i was so tired of being inside angry against him that one evening when I was alone I visualized I was like on my deathbed and he was sitting  next to me and I reviewed all my grievances against him and  , because I was going to die anyway and not continue by his side I forgave him all very easily . lol

But it did change my mind set for some reason lol. And from then on everything got much easier, you might try ?

flofrog, I think what happened to you is this: you were implicitly guided (most likely by your Higher Self) to shift your perspective on your mate to one where their transgressions were no longer important to you.  This allowed you to make the choice to no longer hold on to those grievances - a choice you would not have been easily able to make otherwise.  Once that choice has been made, you stopped caring about them and they naturally dissipated.