09-10-2018, 04:44 PM
(09-09-2018, 11:54 AM)Agua Wrote: You could accept the "negativity" you have in yourself.
All the unloved, denied and rejected parts in you.
That guy you absolutely dont want to be but actually are
We all have greed, hate, wishes for manipulation, revenge and whatever.
Acknowledge them, embrace them.
I guess the difference between postive and negative is:
positive accepts these parts, finds out what is behind it and heals it, without acting out the negativity.
negative consciously and purposefully acts it out.
When you allow it to be, you have a choice.
When you deny it, you have no choice, it will unconsciously act itself out
Just wanted to bold that part.
It needs to be understood and loved because it has been hurt and scared and it is these parts that act out.
Shadow/dark are just other ways of saying unconsious. We don't know the why, because we are afraid to really look at them so they stay in darkness. Shine light on them, find out the why, have compassion for the why and you who carries the why.
Then they heal