How to properly cut a cord with somebody and prevent it from springing back up.

[EvolvingPhoenix]

EvolvingPhoenix, I truly feel that your wounds should be treated with care, petience, and love. Nothing is done in a snap, certainly not healing.

I think you should spend more time around others if possible, and if there are perhaps some who care for you, open up to them, and don't hold all these feelings inside of you. Isolation does no one good, a closed heart prevents or disturbs the natural flow of energy.

I cannot learn for you, only to suggest to seek compassion for both you, and your friend.

Thanks for your concern. ANd I hear ya man. Great news: THE CORD'S GONE! I forgave and let go and it seems to have worked. Thank you so much for the support!