So it seems all 3 of my lower chakras are blocked...

[Quan]

I asked a healer online for help and one of the things she revealed to me was that I have blockages in my lower three chakras. This is not surprising considering my personal circumstances.

She says she'll clear them at some point and let me know when she has. (It seems she can do much work remotely)

Still, she's cleared me once before and now I'm still dealing with 3 blocked chakras and 1 negative cord (most likely the friend who friend-dumped me. This friend is not negative, but when they get into a negative funk, I get into one an vice versa)

Does anybody have any ideas on how I can balance these 3 chakras?

I know I've covered some of this elsewhere, but I'm finding all 3 blocked and it's not a huge surprise.

I'm 28, heartbroken, friend-dumped, unpopular with women, have an over-abundance of feminine energy that came from having to clear my family's karmic bullshit when they have said overabundance and I'm clearing it and all the negative karma from my fam's bloodline. I'm still living with my parents, have been a scapegoat for peoples' problems my WHOLE life, have had a lifetime of rejection, bullying, people trying to browbeat me into conforming to social status quos in ever way they could (except for say sexual assault or something, but that's some extreme s***) and have my parents trying to keep me down still. It's that Japanese saying: "The nail which sticks out gets hammered down" An I've had people hammering me down my whole life. I'm 5'5, probably a little south of 130 pounds, broke, unemployed, creatively, sexually, romantically, and spiritually unfulfilled. I'm mildly autistic. I have a history of suicidal thoughts. I don't have the money to pay for passport renewal or TEFL certification, and my parents won't help me (because they secretly wand unconsciously want my wings clipped) preventing me from leaving this house on my own terms or even at all. A piece of me feels like if my soul receives "the calling" again to reincarnate into 3rd density a second time, I will probably refuse, because I'm SOOO not into going through the shitty treatment of people in 3rd density again. ESPECIALLY the ones who I'm closest with. I've even had MY CLOSEST FRIENDS treat me badly over the years.

I'm so SICK of everyone else's ego and after it all finally just broke me down, MY ego became one of my closest friends' issues and now this friend refuses to give me another chance. It's like I'm forever defined by my shitty treatment of my friend no matter how much I've reflected on it and learned from it and changed and I don't get a second chance, but the people around me have all the chances they need to take me for granted, keep me down, treat me like dirt and disrespect me.

Even after forgiving the ones who've hurt me over the years, I feel like worthless, helpless, s***. I feel unworthy of the support, love, forgiveness, trust, or validation nobody close to me ever seems to give me. And I am only defined by my mistakes and my lowest traits b people whose opinions I care about the most. Sometimes, I just want to die and be free of this Earthly suffering with these hurtful, uncaring, selfish, shitty people I am starting to feel like I have the horrible misfortune of loving.

How THE f*** do I keep my chakras clear when my healer remotely balances them?! How do I fix these?!

Very brave to share what you have that is a big step many would not be able to do that.

How to balance the chakras ?Silent meditation and balancing exercises suggested by Ra(links provided below).. they have done miracles for me! The amount of growth possible is astromical just for what you mention in the message. Those blockages seem the worst i know... but in time you actually want to find them to find more balance, like a coal turning to a diamond.  Please have faith to go on, i hope all the best for you.

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